She spent too much money. He doesn't want THAT for dinner. She doesn't want to watch football. It's the age old problem of couples arguing from silly things to more serious. Arguing is good for you. We are all individuals, so it's natural to argue.sometimes.
It's always better to give than receive, right? What about fortune? Vanity Fair took a poll on giving and receiving recently and found that Americans would rather give a fortune away then to keep it. Really?